i tried to be very honest about myself when i first wrote “what i love about me“. it was a hard entry to write that took me a few days to complete. i wanted to start a little personal project. not really to “find” myself, but to tell myself, “girl, don’t let nobody tell you you can’t do anything. work it. be fierce.”
it’s a similar concept to keeping a style diary of your outfits and special get-ups. the more you see for yourself how you look in what you’re wearing (mirrors sometimes tell a lie), you’ll learn what works for you and what doesn’t. so by keeping a little archive of what i loved about myself, i figured i could always come back and look at it when i was feeling particularly shitty. because let’s be honest now, we all have days like that!
and i know reading “feel-goods” about other people somehow rubs off. so we should all rub off each other and feel groovy together. heh heh!
in all honesty and i’m so not going to lie, if you’ve been following my blog a little, you’ll know that i had such a fantastic week. i had a great weekend that i spent not only with gala and nubby, i also had the chance to meet loulou who is so darn cute!! and better yet, i am just loving my job more and more. as you know, i’m interning at patricia field and everyone there is just the nicest of people on this planet. i don’t think i’m the best worker (i do have my off days) but i really try hard and i’m just so happy doing work there, i’m taking whatever they’re giving me!
on the social level, they crack me up big time. everyone’s so cute, even though we’re not exactly best friends or anything, sometimes they make me laugh so much i want to pinch their cheeks and hug them, we had two parties in the last week. one was for independence day where we had a barbecue at pat’s house. the other party was on wednesday. it was one of my bosses’ birthday and we had it in the middle of the hudson river! (more pictures to come, once i figure out which ones i wanna put up! haha!)
so really, i am having such a good time.
meeting up with nubby and also having met gala on numerous occasions since she’s been in new york, we’ve had the chance to sort of discuss a little about our goals and dreams in life. i loved that. although i’m not that close to them, it felt good knowing people who were chasing their dreams – just as i am.
in a strange coincidence, i was randomly looking at my blog stats, which i hardly ever do, and i was getting some hits from one of gala’s old posts. it was from a comment i made, and when i read it, i had to smile to myself a little. i had said:
i’m really glad i found this blog because although we’re different in so many ways, i feel we’re so similar in many others.
gala and i are rather different on the personality level. but i think it’s great how we both work hard to make our dreams come true. so bravo to you, dear gala. and yay to me too. because i know how hard i had to work to get to where i am today. it was a very very long and winding road and although there is still so much more that i have yet to learn or experience, recently, i feel like i really have one foot in the door
what about you? what do you love about yourself? don’t be shy!
pretend you’re a snooty little princess or a nose-in-the-air prince, and let me hear all about it. haha! or if you would take a picture of yourself too, i definitely want to see!!

















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gilda, you most certainly are fierce! super cute hat <3 ok, i’m going to stop blog stalking you now.
PS: i love that instead of saying ‘i want to be a webdesigner, writer etc’ i’ve given myself a wee kick up the arse & launched TL that lets me do those things. i love that also, after longing to travel for so many years, that i’ve finally got my shit together & am living out of a rucksack, drinking lots of beer & photographing some of the most beautiful places i’ve ever seen. the world is my oyster!
ok. NOW. i’ll get off of your blog!
oh wow! You’re friends with Gala!
Thanks so much for your comment! I would say yours are pretty amazing too! (you did those illlustrations right?)
xox
I totally love how funny I am. I make myself laugh a million times a day-priceless. And two, I am hellza freaking fun, yo. If I weren’t me, I would want to hang out with me all day long. Great post!
Aww Gilda, what I admired most about you after getting to spend some time together was that you took big chances moving across the world by yourself and made a place for yourself in New York. I’m so proud of you for landing such an amazing internship. It’s just the beginning!
I just came across your blog. Wonderful post, you seem like a very strong person. I’ve bookmarked your site, great stuff.
gilda, you are gorgeous – what a truly beautiful post
Thank you so much for the birthday wishes, Gilda! I’m lovin’ your blog–your fashion designs are divine, and I love reading all the bits and pieces about your adventures here in NY and abroad.
Alice’s is definitely worth visiting. The scones are delicious, and the decor is so charming.
+katie+
i love that you’re doing treslola! it’s great that you can write about such a wide range of topics and it’s all something you’ve experienced yourself! if the world is your oyster please be my peeeearl. hee hee!!
hahhaahha!!! are you watching meeeee?
+v+
draw more please! i love your cute little ones.
gala is cute. yeah those are my illustrations
+butter eater lis+
wow!! i love funny people! i read some of your blog posts. hohohoho. i can imagine that we could guffaw and giggle together.
+nubby+
ohhhhh thank you!!! i’m really gonna work hard at this. and your job sounds amazing and hopefully your big dreams will take you places too!
+miss corrine+
i read you just had a mac makeover! ooh me too me too! i loved it so much i want to marry my make up artist but alas… there isn’t such thing as a straight make up artist!
oh you little flatterer. you’re not too bad yourself
+rie+
thanks sweetie! i’m so pleased you lke them. i will certainly go to alice’s based on your recommendation!
i don’t really remember if i’ve already told you this but you are so lucky to be able to hang out with gala! i would so love to meet you girls someday…
lately i’ve been focusing more than ever on following my dreams…i wrote a post on this subject where i was saying I believe in adjusting the world to fit your dreams, and not the other way around. if you’d like to check out the whole text, it’s here: http://sweetfancytreat.blogspot.com/2008/06/issues.html
by your photo, i see we have about the same ideas. kisses!
being at convention this week i really haven’t had the time to just be myself. there were moments which i was really down but there are moments this week i have been proud of myself.
what i love about myself is being able to observe and appreciate. we had a ball on the last night of convention and for a moment i just sat there at my table alone. i didn’t care i was alone. i sat there watching everyone. enjoying the moment. watching laughter, love and feeling the sense of community and magic that night brought. also this week i realise what i like about myself is my ability to listen and to comfort others. i’m not the type who runs away when i see someone upset. i willl hold them and give them the time.
btw gilda you look scrumptiously cute in that dress and hat! ^^
You are adorable!
I’m not quite sure what I love about myself, although I do like myself a good amount. I can’t think if anything specific, really.
I don’t have any idea where I’d begin on something like this, but it’s inspiring to read your take!
I looove your spirit!! You are a real wonderful chica! And inspiring tooooo!!! what I love about me? Eeek… I love that, I am willing to stop my whole real schedule to have a party for one. Which can be dangerous too
Love what you are up tooo!!
I love my wit and sense of humor, my open-mindedness, and my stubborn determination (which has gotten me through a few difficult trials). <3 I know that I can always rely on me, and I’m the bestest of best friends to myself!
+daiane+
hahaha. we hang out like normal girls. i think i started reading icing when first started my blog and icing was about 6 months old or something, when it was slightly more “personal” instead. but it seems like she’s such a huge superstar now. i wonder if i should be nicer to her! hahha just kidding. i told gala about your comment on twitter and she said, “Haha, YEAH you’re privileged, don’t forget it! ;DDDD”. hee hee! i read and left a comment on that post of yours. i really loved what you said! it was a special thing. hug!
+leanne+
oh my god leanne, that convention you went to sounds so amazing!! looks amazing! brazilian dancers! winter wonderland! shriek! i love that you said you observe and appreciate. seeing people interact and laughing with each other makes me feel happy too. doesn’t it make you appreciate life, in a weird way? and your ability to comfort people, that is a skill that not everyone has. it also says you have a really kind heart!
+shen-shen+
i know you like your boobs. AHAHHAHA you said it! i’m sure you have plenty of wonderful personality traits!
+enc+
i hope it might inspire you! i i’ve only done this twice and it’s nice to just sit down and think about no one but myself for a little while, about what i am glad i have. it’s my little “love myself” time! you should really try it!
+a fanciful twist+
oh my god i’m so excited that you left a comment!!! ahhh!! thank you!!! vanessa, your whole life is so inspiring and magical, you deserve plenty of tea parties!! full of color and glittery things!!!
+annie spandex+
stubborn determination is great. it means you WANT to succeed and you probably will!!
aha! i love people who are witty and funny
This post made me happy xD
+raiment urbane+
really?? well that makes me happy to know that!!
what a wonderful post and i love your pictures, good for you for doing this! it’s an excellent exercise. Now I’m going to go make signs and practice!
+fashion herald+
ooooooh! i really hope you do! and please show me!
You are too adorable! I love your sense of style. i have gone back to read some of your posts.
Look forward to reading more!
+marisol+
thank you sweetie! the way i dress myself is kinda different from most others… but then it’s just me being me