i’ve been receiving quite a lot of emails recently, asking me about japan and especially tokyo. so i’ve decided to start replying them on my blog instead! if you have any questions, send them my way! or you can also leave it as a comment here. also don’t forget to check out my insider’s guide to the best of tokyo (in my opinion!!) and my other japan related posts!
here’s an email from one of my readers, bryan!
i just stayed up all night (it’s 8am now) just reading your blog. i made myself a (very unshapely) tamagoyaki 2 hours ago and ever since then i’ve been reading more random posts, particularly those on fashion and japan. just read your gilda’s guide to tokyo and i had to stop myself from reading further to avoid getting too excited and losing more sleep.
i came back from my trip to japan last month with a lotta questions (and new clothes). i will now ask you some of them that have been bugging me if you don’t mind.
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with his email, bryan attached a picture of the tamagoyaki he had made. i think it looks pretty darn good, don’t you?
why do some people wear face masks? the masks like, totally ruins the look of their outfits! lol
haha! doesn’t it look like everyone has sars? there are a lot of reasons why people wear those. first of all, there are two kinds of masks sold widely in japan. one is the regular surgical mask that is sometimes used when preparing food in the kitchen of a restaurant etc. the other, is a special mask (seriously, so much research goes into this!) that one uses when one catches a flu, or does not want to catch a flu.
japan as a whole, is quite a polite society. whenever any of my friends get sick, they put on a mask. they aren’t the type of annoying people who would cough and sneeze in your face to spread their germs. or, if there is a flu bug going around, you’ll see a lot of japanese wearing these masks too, so that they won’t catch the germs. these masks also retain some moisture within themselves, which is good for when one has a cough. some are also designed to block out dirt, allergens, cigarette smoke, and pollen. so you will see plenty of people wearing the masks during seasons like spring and autumn when the pollen levels are especially crazy in japan. many japanese have hay fever!
a friend of mine adds a drop of mint or eucalyptus oil to her mask when she catches a flu. she swears it helps clear her nose and ease the tightness in her chest!
personally, i’ve tried the masks before and i can’t handle them. i have breathing problems (asthma and history of bronchitis!) and wearing masks, whether i’m sick or not, makes me feel like i don’t have enough oxygen to breathe. the only time i force myself to wear one is when i’m cleaning my room! this keeps the dust away! but every few minutes i have to stop what i’m doing, lift my mask away and take in some air. hahahaha!

photo by LeeLeFever
besides the sickness issue, sometimes, crimes in japan are committed with these masks. a lot of goth types also use it as part of their fashion dress ups. the masks are such a big part of japan’s culture, there are tons of different colors and prints now, not just white. so if you were dressing up as some goth doctor with a white coat and bloody stains, for example, the mask would complete your outfit. i had a goth lolita friend who wore a mask all the time around her neck. it was like an accessory! another former classmate of mine permanently wore a mask and for half a year, i never knew how his mouth looked like. seriously!
when i’m making a purchase at a store by credit card, why does the cashier sometimes ask “one time or two times?” (‘ikkai’ or ‘nikkai’, i believe). i just say once, presuming it’s about installments. but i actually have no idea how to answer.
the japanese cashiers always have a whole string of things that they would say to you at the cashier. first of all they will thank you for shopping. then they’ll key your item in and sometimes verbally confirm how much each of your items cost. after which, they’ll say the total.
if you do hand them a credit card, what they will usually ask is something like, “お支払いは一括でよろしいですか?” (oshiharai wa ikkatsu de yoroshii desu ka?) which basically translates to, “is it alright to process your payment just once?“
if you are a japanese, or if you hold a credit card issued by a japanese bank, you have the option to pay in installments. (that’s how the regular japanese would pay for their louis vuittons, yo!)
however, as an alien in that country, you would most likely be holding a card from a foreign bank, and hence you do not have an installment option. so your answer should be “ikkatsu de onegaishimasu”. yes yes, i know that’s freaking long. so say “ikkatsu de”, and if you still can’t handle that, just point your index finger towards the sky.
do you REALLY have to leave your top on when trying on clothes in fitting rooms? i can’t tell if it fits properly like that. how do people try on stuff like tanktops?
erm… huh??? i don’t know. i’ve never heard of this. hahahah! when i try tops or dresses on, i usually take off whatever i’m already wearing on top. if i’m wearing make up, i will ask for one of those paper or cloth hoody things to wear over my head (and kinda makes you look like the kkk…oops.), before i try it on. however, some places will not allow you to try on white tops, and in those cases i ask if they have the same item in another color, try that, then decide if i want the one in white!
hope that helps! more questions to follow soon!
















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Oh it’s nice to know about the credit cards and the face masks n_n.
I usually don’t wear make up when I shop because I always stain everything. While in Spain we didn’t use make up because the heat would only melt it down, it was horrible!
I need to sleep more, I’m still jet lagging. I can’t believe it.
Wow very interesting and informative. I would really like to go to japan, my brother is learning the language. Very awesome.
Very informative. In some change rooms I was told I am not allowed to try on a “one piece” as in a dress. There was a sign and everything. What made it really annoying was I was wearing a dress I had bought at the same store the week before and I was allowed to try it on then. I tried to explain but they refused, so bloody annoying. I also found the make up masks super annoying because they gave them to me and I wasn’t even wearing make up, and they would check to see if I was wearing it. Grrrr. I also hated having to take off my shoes to go into a change room, that really annoyed me, I know its their tradition but it is annoying when you are out shopping to always take on and off your shoes. And you can’t just go into a change room by yourself, the sales staff come running madly over to do their polite thing of holding open the door and hanging the clothes on the hook. I didn’t mind that so much. The thing is in Australia too much service is kinda unpopular, its part of our culture to just be relaxed (sometimes too relaxed) so in Japan the level of customer service freaked me out at first, but I eventually got used to it. The reverse happened for my Japanese friend (my old Nova student) who came to Melbourne to visit me. We were in a shop and she wanted to try on some dresses so I pointed out the change rooms and she went “what do I do?” she was used to a sales assistant taking her clothes and putting them into the change room and taking off her shoes and being fussed over by the staff. That does happen in some stores here (designer stores) but not every little shop like it does in Japan. You must find it difficult in New York, when I was there I was really surprised by the rudeness of shop assistants even compared to Australian levels of customer service. But in America the minimum wage is really low compared to Australia so I would be angry and rude too if I was getting $4 an hour or whatever it is (in Aus it would be $15-$21 an hour, big difference)
Sorry about the long comment, but it seems the only thing I didn’t like about Japan was change rooms, lol. Everything else I loved. I too want to start shopping tours to Tokyo, I’ve been thinking though who would pay for it? I have 3 business ideas for when I go back and that was 1 of them, but the 1 that I don’t think would work as well. I really want to open a shop (I have a few gaijin friends who have done this so it isn’t impossible) or an English school, but a cool one. Who knows. Oh and thanks about the wedding photos, I love them too, it was the best day of my life, so fun.
Oh wow.
Thanks for visiting my blog.
I really love your blog, it’s so awesome.
Anyway, I envy the fact that you have the chance to live in different countries.
Oh, maybe you’ll like to exchange places with me?
One day Ill live in Japan:) But first Thai Land. I was raised on a Thai junk ( just posted a video about it on my bloggiez) Im new to this blog stuff but want a good group of readers so i dont feel like im standing out in a field alone talking to myself hahahha…, you seem to have this. besides the fact that youre so darn cute and have a awesome life, how do you think I should go about this??
I also wear dust masks when I clean–I can’t stand getting dust in my lungs. Yuck!
This was an interesting post!
I love it that many Japanese wear masks to fend against hay fever. I know it’s normalized but it still seems so devil-may-care to my foreign mind.
Hello! Soul gardens are nice right?
+julie+
wow, it was that hot in spain? i had no idea. i can’t believe you’re still jet lagging either! hahah! girl, you’re young! you’re supposed to be up and at it already!
+raiment urbane+
you should! i think it’s the best city there is. the language can be tricky. tell your brother to watch lots of japanese shows!
+hayley+
i hated taking off my shoes at some stores too. especially when i was wearing major laced up shoes that would be a pain to take off. i never understood that. i think it’s usually because they don’t want their rug or something to get dirty, so whenever they say that i say i won’t step on the rug and i just stand really near the door. haha. or i’ll kick the rug away! and YES they always come to check on how you are inside there. i don’t particularly like it. i’m also not stick thin and sometimes i’ll try on something that i look like an overstuffed dumpling in, and the shop people come over and insist on seeing how i look. i always tell them i don’t need help and that i’m alright. you’re right about shop assistants here in america. a lot of them are like that and i usually don’t buy anything when they piss me off. i mean, i’m not gonna add to your commission if you annoyed me, you know? i think a lot of people might pay for shopping tours, actually. not everyone wants to shop in boring ginza places. and it’s hard for foreigners to navigate urahara. one day, one day! and i would love to have a shop in tokyo one day. i mean, that’s the only reason why i’m slaving right now. that’s my ultimate goal!!! i’ll finish in new york in a few years, work a year, perhaps go to europe, then i’ll go back to tokyo and hopefully set up shop. i can’t wait. it’s my long-term 5 year plan!! wheeee!!
aren’t some japanese people just so anal? you know what i mean!
+marie+
haha, thank you! i find myself very lucky too. living in different countries has really opened my eyes to different cultures. i wouldn’t exchange it for the world. haha!
+nato tuke+
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thai land! you were raised on thai junk??? sometimes i feel like i’m talking to no one too. heh heh! i think the trick is to keep talking until someone finds you!
+annie spandex+
me too! well also, i’m very allergic to dust so i don’t want to sneeze my head off. hay fever season is quite bad in japan. everyone’s in a mask, and everyone has teary eyes and a drippy nose. it seems really terrible!
+alson+
yeah seoul garden was pretty nice. i haven’t been there since i was like, 15 though. but at that time, it was all i could afford. haha! i’ve long outgrown it!