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		<title>takoyaki and curry party at koki&#8217;s!!</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 25 Jul 2010 12:18:30 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>gilda rêvasseur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[on saturday, july 17th, i went over to my friend&#8217;s loft in brooklyn late at night after spending the entire day with the very lovely fashion hayley from australia! yayyy! it was so hot on saturday, both hayley and i had to take rest stops every couple of hours. we went from williamsburg to the [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>on saturday, july 17th, i went over to my friend&#8217;s loft in brooklyn late at night after spending the entire day with the very lovely <a href="http://www.fashionhayley.com/" target="_blank">fashion hayley</a> from australia! yayyy!</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">haha! here&#39;s hayley taking a snap of this really cute girl in williamsburg!</p>
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<p>it was so hot on saturday, both hayley and i had to take rest stops every couple of hours. we went from williamsburg to the east village to noho to soho! <strong>quite</strong> a feat in this terrible weather, i have to say!</p>
<p>at the end of the day, we even had to buy cheap 2 for $5 beach sandals from old navy because we both had feet that were killing us!! we were seriously waddling along in pain! it was hilarious! and the sighs of relief after changing out of our old sandals and into the flip-flops&#8230;. <em>ahhhhh~~~.</em></p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">this photo is courtesy of fashion hayley. the girl in the middle is one of her readers who happened to walk by and said hi to hayley while we sat and talked on the stoop!</p>
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<p>i dropped off my stuff at home and then headed to brooklyn. 4 of my friends live together in a loft there, and it wasn&#8217;t any sort of party or anything, but they were drinking beers and asked anyone who was bored shitless to drop by.</p>
<p>so of course&#8230;</p>
<p>when i got there, someone had put one of those caps on the fire hydrant downstairs and left it running. so the photographer in the house decided to run down to snap some pictures and we went along because we were busybodies. what else. i kept trying to peep and see what functions ryosuke was using to take his pictures and what type of buttons he was pressing, but man, it was too complicated for me! i really wish i was better at taking photos!</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">one of their neighbours from downstairs brought out their shampoo, bath gel AND loofah and had their entire shower in the water. really? a loofah too? REALLY!??!</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">after the photo-taking, ryosuke and tossy both jumped in too. the next day, tossy got sick. AHAHAH.</p>
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<p>i don&#8217;t even know what i was doing at their house&#8230; i think we were really just lazing around and having random conversations. before i knew it, it got light outside and i finally took a cab home at about 6am. the sky was so clear. it was really pretty and peaceful.</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">it&#39;s weird how much energy and qi i get from looking at the sky.</p>
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<p>that night, we met at about 6pm at the japanese supermarket in the east village to buy ingredients for food, then took the train to brooklyn again and headed for koki&#8217;s new home. he&#8217;s moved into an apartment with his girlfriend, lisa, in a completely mexican part of town! as we walked from the station to his apartment, everyone we saw were mexicans! not that i don&#8217;t have mexican friends that i adore, but being the only two asians there, i hope they don&#8217;t run into any trouble. we must have been quite a sight – a group of asian people walking down the street in our colourful gear. haha!</p>
<p>koki&#8217;s new apartment was really long and spacious&#8230; but VERY hot! he had air-conditioners at both ends but we all wondered out loud how the previous tenants used the rooms in between. they were like furnaces!</p>
<p>he made us some gorgeous japanese seafood curry to eat. yummmmm!!! i hadn&#8217;t had japanese curry in a while so it was really exciting. i don&#8217;t know if he added stock, or maybe it was the sweetness from the prawns, but the curry didn&#8217;t taste anything like the ready-made curry cubes that he added in. i was sooo impressed!</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">total cafe-standard japanese/western-inspired curry with parsley sprinkled on top. then we learnt he DID work in a cafe before. aha!</p>
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<p>the other exciting part of the evening was making takoyaki balls!! you might have seen them before. they are really famous in osaka, japan, and are often sold at festivals or road-side stalls throughout japan. i&#8217;d bought a takoyaki pan (with the holes to make those balls), so we all took turns making it.</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">how cute is this dude? he&#39;s the &quot;oiler&quot;.</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">the room was soooooo hot because of the stove, i was gonna faint. </p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">after pouring in the batter, you add octopus, and spring onions (or any other ingredients you want, like cheese etc), and start flipping it!</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">when the outside turned crispy and the inside was cooked through, the layering of the sauces begin! okonomiyaki sauce with kewpie mayonnaise and aonori!</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">the finished product! so good! tres bon! maji oishikatta!</p>
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<p>in singapore, i had several <a href="http://queengilda.com/2007/06/30/okonomiyaki-love/">okonomiyaki</a> parties with my friends or at home with my family. and in japan, we had them once every now and then too. so i was really excited to have it again here in new york! okonomiyaki is really similar to takoyaki. “okonomi” means “favorite” or “what you like”, and “yaki” is “cooked” or “grilled”. basically you mix whatever you want into the batter. usual ingredients are stuff like shredded cabbage, prawns, pork, eggs, cheese, whatever.</p>
<p>&#8220;tako&#8221; means octopus. so putting in cut cubes of octopus is the norm, but now, it&#8217;s evolved to be really similar to okonomiyaki. you can basically put whatever you like in there. salmon, cheese, mentaiko&#8230; there&#8217;s even desert takoyaki now where you put chocolate into plain batter. sounds good, no?</p>
<p>if you&#8217;ve never tried takoyaki or okonomiyaki, you have to one day! especially okonomiyaki, since you can make it with any fry pan or hot plate. plus, it&#8217;s really easy to make and terribly delish. i will put up a good recipe soon!!</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">testing the first takoyaki to see if it cooked through</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">and it is!! yay!</p>
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<p>i don&#8217;t know what we did the rest of the night. half of it was spent around the portable stove cooking the takoyaki, and the rest we just talked, and played the <a href="http://queengilda.com/2010/07/05/4th-of-july-gotta-love-them-home-parties/">yamanote-sen game</a> again. just like during the previous party, i had no clue to some of the questions and had to take a forfeit and ate this disgusting mix of fermented natto beans, mentaiko, ginger and not sure what else. tears came to my eyes and i thought i was going to puke. YUCK.</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">slowly stepping away from the fire and letting them do the work. lol. sorry.</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">no comment.</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">*guffaw*</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">tossy and ryo with sudden high energies.</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">i kinda liked this mexican beer from the neighbourhood deli!</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">and here&#39;s to the couple and their new home!</p>
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<p>what have you guys been up to? summer parties? i&#8217;ve been obsessed with having people over or going to friends&#8217; homes. almost everyday. with school over and while i haven&#8217;t found a job yet, i feel as though i need to fill this lonely gap in my life.</p>
<p>i never really socialised much while i was at parsons because i was too tired and couldn&#8217;t be bothered to go out and party like some of the kids did. so i stuck to my small social circle. i adore my friends, i do, but before work starts (if i ever do find a job) and things start getting busy again, i need to hang out with them as much as i can, see them often and just laugh nonstop, before i miss the chance to build memories and regret later.</p>
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		<title>my housewarming party!</title>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 21 Jul 2010 19:29:11 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>gilda rêvasseur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[it was gay pride day a few weeks ago on june 27th. totally forgetting that it was gonna clog up the entire west village, i invited some friends over for a housewarming party/dinner/drink. there were 8 of us and i had no idea what to cook. there was plenty of thinking to do and plenty [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>it was gay pride day a few weeks ago on june 27th. totally forgetting that it was gonna clog up the entire west village, i invited some friends over for a housewarming party/dinner/drink.</p>
<p>there were 8 of us and i had no idea what to cook. there was plenty of thinking to do and plenty of going up to those friends and asking, &#8220;wait, so do you eat a lot?&#8221; it also didn&#8217;t help that i have the tiniest kitchen ever!</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-2065" title="IMG_0953" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IMG_0953.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="450" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">i ended up making shepard&#39;s pie since it could be made in advance.</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-2062" title="IMG_0402" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IMG_0402.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="400" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">i also made some tiramisu for dessert.</p>
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<p>in addition, i had some pork, peppers and pineapple on skewers that were marinated in a honey glaze. unfortunately, my oven is stupid (or i&#8217;m stupid and don&#8217;t know how to use my oven and broiler) but while baking the shepard&#8217;s pie and trying to broil the skewers, my smoke alarm went off and that was when one of the taller guys had to climb up on a stool to pull it off the ceiling! oh, yeah we did try to turn it off but it wasn&#8217;t working so we pulled out the batteries and took it down. didn&#8217;t wanna scare the neighbours!</p>
<p>outside, it was really hot and i had been running around in the morning getting ingredients for the party. of course, it was gay pride day and i had to make so many detours because of the roads that were closed up. it wasn&#8217;t fun trying to get through a sweating glitter-covered crowd!!</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-2066" title="IMG_0958" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IMG_0958.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="450" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">bleecker street was already filling up at 11am.</p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">soon after my friends came at 8pm, we heard fireworks and realized i had a pretty good view of them from my window! </p>
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	<p class="wp-caption-text">funny thing was, the boys were more interested in the fireworks than the girls. hahaha!</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-2052" title="IMG_0333" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IMG_0333.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="765" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">setting up the champagne flutes.</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-2053" title="IMG_0335" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IMG_0335.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="400" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">wonder what we were talking about here... looks like ryosuke&#39;s giving some class talk and we&#39;re all paying attention, right?</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-2054" title="IMG_0337" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IMG_0337.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="731" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">close-up of ryosuke&#39;s necklace. i want.</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-2055" title="IMG_0346" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IMG_0346.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="400" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">the guys got a kick out of all my hats, especially my sailor cap.</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-2056" title="IMG_0352" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IMG_0352.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="400" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">so of course they passed it around and tried it on. </p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-2064" title="IMG_0414" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IMG_0414.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="400" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">i think it looks pretty good on all of them...</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-2059" title="IMG_0383" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IMG_0383.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="400" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">but it was koki who suited it best. i mean, seriously. there are definitely navy boys out there who look like this. we couldn&#39;t stop laughing.</p>
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<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2058" title="IMG_0359" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IMG_0359.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="400" /></p>
<p><img class="aligncenter size-full wp-image-2060" title="IMG_0393" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IMG_0393.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="400" /></p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-2067" title="x2_1c5cbff" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/x2_1c5cbff.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="800" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">as you can see, ryuji&#39;s the joker of the group.</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-2061" title="IMG_0401" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/IMG_0401.jpg" alt="" width="600" height="400" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">ryosuke with my not-very-pretty tiramisu that i randomly dusted cocoa powder over. note to self: need to buy one of those strainer things to dust the cocoa next time!</p>
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<p>i had such a great night. it was terribly fun. you know i&#8217;ve really hated new york quite a bit. i think new york = parsons to me, so for the last 3 years, every holiday break i&#8217;ve had, i&#8217;ve tried to escape from the city.</p>
<p>this is probably the first time in the almost 3 years that i&#8217;ve spent in new york, that i&#8217;ve been really enjoying myself and realizing that when you&#8217;re doing what you love and you have friends surrounding you, anywhere on earth could be heaven. yep, even new york.</p>
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		<title>smorkin&#8217; labbit&#8217;s adventure: july 4th bbq at pat field&#8217;s</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 05:58:53 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>gilda rêvasseur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[it was july 4th yesterday!! ok, you knew that. but in america, it&#8217;s apparently a really important day to have barbecues and look at fireworks. ummm. right. last year, i spent my american independance day at patricia field&#8217;s annual barbecue. i was still considerably new at work, but it was quite the beginning of a [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>it was july 4th yesterday!! ok, you knew that. but in america, it&#8217;s apparently a really important day to have barbecues and look at fireworks. ummm. right.</p>
<p><a href="http://queengilda.com/2008/07/07/fab-independence-day-weekend-070408/">last year, i spent my american independance day at patricia field&#8217;s annual barbecue.</a> i was still considerably new at work, but it was quite the beginning of a love affair because i&#8217;d fallen in love with all these amazing people from the <a href="http://queengilda.com/tag/patricia-field/">house of field.</a> i stopped work in december 2008 because of school, after spending about 7 months working in the store (mostly in the office), but i had kept in contact with all my friends there. so when sushi emailed me that he was celebrating his birthday early this year, at pat&#8217;s barbecue, there was nowhere else in new york i&#8217;d rather be. (ps: i adooore sushi. and <a href="http://queengilda.com/2008/07/16/sushis-birthday-party/">his birthday last year was pretty darn fun too!</a>)</p>
<p>the night before, i took a look at my <a href="http://www.kidrobot.com/" target="_blank">kidrobot plush smorkin&#8217; labbit</a> that was sitting happy on my couch smoking his cig. <span style="color: #00ccff;">and instead of a rabbit, suddenly i saw a bag. so i did it. i killed mr labbit!</span></p>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-987 " title="labbit original" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/IMG_0117-400x300.jpg" alt="labbit original" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">this is smorkin&#39; labbit sitting happy on my sofa before my impromptu murder</p>
</div>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-988 " title="cutting labbit " src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/IMG_0124-400x300.jpg" alt="cutting labbit " width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">sliced him down the back! sorry dude!</p>
</div>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-989 " title="pulling out labbit's innards" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/IMG_0127-400x533.jpg" alt="pulling out labbit's innards" width="400" height="533" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">pulling out those innards, hannibal lecter style</p>
</div>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-986 " title="attaching bag to labbit" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/1-400x533.jpg" alt="attaching bag to labbit" width="400" height="533" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">gave labbit a bright unicorn pocket</p>
</div>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-991 " title="sewing labbit" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/photof-400x300.jpg" alt="sewing labbit" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">poking the hell out of labbit</p>
</div>
<p>labbit became a not-so-little shoulder bag, and came with me the next day to the barbecue at pat&#8217;s. the party started at 5pm, and when i arrived at 6:30, it was packed!!! whoah! i was not expecting so many people, because it was way more chill and relaxed last year.</p>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1007 " title="bbq scene" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2808-400x300.jpg" alt="bbq scene" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">the party scene. the whole house was filled!</p>
</div>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-993 " title="squeeze in!! ian, natalie, lyndsay, dai, me" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6095_1120157576850_1614371059_281384_2881232_n-400x300.jpg" alt="squeeze in!! ian, natalie, lyndsay, dai, me" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">squeeze in yo! ian, natalie, lyndsay, dai and i. i was so excited to see ian and dai, whom i haven&#39;t seen in a long while!</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-992 " title="the girls: natalie, lyndsay, dai, me" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6095_1120157496848_1614371059_281382_8107150_n-400x300.jpg" alt="the girls: natalie, lyndsay, dai, me" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">just take the damn picture, ian</p>
</div>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-994 " title="sexy cook" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6095_1120157816856_1614371059_281390_3090700_n-400x531.jpg" alt="sexy cook" width="400" height="531" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">i&#39;d been warned that i might be helping with party prep but didn&#39;t have to in the end. well, they had the sexiest cook around, sofia!</p>
</div>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1008 " title="on the sofa" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2811-400x300.jpg" alt="on the sofa" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">everyone sing, &quot;i&#39;m, too sexy for my...&quot;</p>
</div>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-999 " title="put your right leg in" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6451_1202803829349_1206207889_30609566_5894503_n-400x300.jpg" alt="put your right leg in" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">&quot;put your left leg in, and shake it all about&quot;</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1009 " title="the russian always looks better" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2812-400x300.jpg" alt="the russian always looks better" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">these damned russians always look better</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1006 " title="mauricio, blonds, ingrid and dennis" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6451_1202804629369_1206207889_30609586_1251947_n-400x300.jpg" alt="mauricio, blonds, ingrid and dennis" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">mauricio of mao pr, the blonds, ingrid and dennis with one of the poodles</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1010 " title="oh stop flirting" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2813-400x533.jpg" alt="oh stop flirting" width="400" height="533" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">oh stop</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1011 " title="sultana" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2815-400x300.jpg" alt="sultana" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">sultana was the calmest dog in the house for once!!</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1003 " title="ingrid is fierce" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6451_1202804109356_1206207889_30609573_4180451_n-400x300.jpg" alt="ingrid is fierce" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">ingrid is fierce. and dennis is weird</p>
</div>
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everyone gathered downstairs to sing sushi a birthday song. awwwww!! everyone loves sushi.</p>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-995 " title="happy birthday sushi!" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6095_1120157936859_1614371059_281393_5604552_n-400x300.jpg" alt="happy birthday sushi!" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">russian dennis brings out the cake!</p>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-996 " title="sushi's jonas bro tshirt eww" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6095_1120157976860_1614371059_281394_7351833_n-400x300.jpg" alt="sushi's jonas bro tshirt eww" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">sushi&#39;s jonas brothers tshirt is eww</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1001 " title="unbelievable" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6451_1202803949352_1206207889_30609569_3202445_n-400x533.jpg" alt="unbelievable" width="400" height="533" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">when sushi told me this picture was him like 15 years ago, i nearly died laughing. really.</p>
</div>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1000 " title="eat that cake!" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6451_1202803909351_1206207889_30609568_1630600_n-400x539.jpg" alt="eat that cake!" width="400" height="539" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">eat that cake!</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1013 " title="pat's cutting the cake" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2819-400x300.jpg" alt="pat's cutting the cake" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">pat takes charge and dishes that cake out like business</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1012 " title="wtf cake" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2818-400x533.jpg" alt="wtf cake" width="400" height="533" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">i mean, seriously. i died. oh my god i need the original photo to put up on my wall. this deserved two listings on my blog. hohohohohohahahahahahohwowoahhhaah!</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1016 " title="tsophie and i" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2824-400x300.jpg" alt="tsophie and i" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">got to know sofia when i helped artie, sushi and her set up FIT&#39;s graduate show. i love her!</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1002 " title="girls with pat" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6451_1202803989353_1206207889_30609570_4636727_n-400x300.jpg" alt="girls with pat" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">the girls with pat</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1014 " title="tsophie and artie" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2820-400x533.jpg" alt="tsophie and artie" width="400" height="533" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">tsophie and artie aka the fiercest stylist ever</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-998 " title="dennis and tsophia's ass" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6095_1120158536874_1614371059_281408_2960200_n-400x531.jpg" alt="dennis and tsophia's ass" width="400" height="531" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">the russian grabs tsophie&#39;s ass</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-997 " title="heterosexual couple" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6095_1120158496873_1614371059_281407_6755955_n-400x300.jpg" alt="heterosexual couple" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">the pretend heterosexual couple. dennis is disgusting.</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-large wp-image-990 aligncenter" title="labbit's a-hole" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/phoassto-400x533.jpg" alt="labbit's a-hole" width="400" height="533" /><br />
<span style="color: #00ccff;">labbit&#8217;s a-hole was an unexpected big-hit at the party.</span> i shoulda guessed. <strong>all these new york queens!!</strong> sushi said labbit was like dennis. a white rabbit with a cig in his mouth and a pink a-hole. dennis was insulted. he said his was deeper. <span style="color: #00ccff;">i died (again) laughing. poor labbit got fingered by many gays. happy 4th of july!</span></p>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1004 " title="russian ass" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/6451_1202804269360_1206207889_30609577_4024425_n-400x533.jpg" alt="russian ass" width="400" height="533" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">hot asses. we don&#39;t need more proof dennis!</p>
</div>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1015 " title="fay, sushi and i" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2821-400x300.jpg" alt="fay, sushi and i" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">fay showed up when the party was ending! here&#39;s us with the birthday boy.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;">
<p>as the party dwindled down and got more personable and friendly, fay came and said hi to everyone. she&#8217;s an ex-classmate of mine from parsons. <a href="http://queengilda.com/2009/02/20/fall-semester-of-junior-year/">you might remember her modeling my forest nymph jacket before.</a> she used to work at pat field too, so she knew most of the people there. she said she had a few other parties to go to, so we left pat&#8217;s and hopped over to this apparent party at the penthouse of thompson hotel at allen street. unfortunately, the view was amazing but the party was pathetic and filled with drunk teens so we left. fay&#8217;s friend, barry, met us at the hotel and we cabbed to brooklyn!</p>
<div id="attachment_1017" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 400px">
	<img class="size-large wp-image-1017 " title="view" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2830-400x300.jpg" alt="view" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">the view from the thompson hotel&#39;s penthhouse. this is one of those rare times i think, &quot;damn i want a boyfriend!&quot;</p>
</div>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1020 " title="grafitti girl" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2835-400x300.jpg" alt="grafitti girl" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">brooklyn grafitti</p>
</div>
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	<img class="size-large wp-image-1018 " title="barry and fay grooving" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2831-400x533.jpg" alt="barry and fay grooving" width="400" height="533" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">barry and fay groovin&#39;.</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
<p style="text-align: center;">we stayed at this party in williamsburg for a while and danced under the stars. at the end of the night however, we decided we wanted hotdogs and icecream, so back to the city we went!</p>
<div id="attachment_1021" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 400px">
	<img class="size-large wp-image-1021 " title="hot dog store" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2837-400x300.jpg" alt="hot dog store" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">crif hot dog store. look at that girl straddling that... hot dog</p>
</div>
<div id="attachment_1023" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 400px">
	<img class="size-large wp-image-1023 " title="fay and i at hotdogs" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2842-400x300.jpg" alt="fay and i at hotdogs" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">fay and i after we ate our dogs. fay&#39;s obviously satisfied!</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
<div id="attachment_1022" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 400px">
	<img class="size-large wp-image-1022 " title="gonna cut you!" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2838-400x300.jpg" alt="gonna cut you!" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">ima gonna cut you!</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
<div id="attachment_1024" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 400px">
	<img class="size-large wp-image-1024 " title="barry shakin' that ass" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2846-400x533.jpg" alt="barry shakin' that ass" width="400" height="533" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">barry, shakin that ass</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
<div id="attachment_1025" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 400px">
	<img class="size-large wp-image-1025 " title="barry and fay ordering icecream" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2847-400x533.jpg" alt="barry and fay ordering icecream" width="400" height="533" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">getting icecream at the dodgy belgian hippy place on avenue a</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
<div id="attachment_1026" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 400px">
	<img class="size-large wp-image-1026 " title="humongous icecream" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2849-400x300.jpg" alt="humongous icecream" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">i was not expecting this. for the first time in my life, the ice melted faster than i could lick it, and i was like some stupid 5 year old with gross sticky stuff all over my hands</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
<div id="attachment_1028" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 400px">
	<img class="size-large wp-image-1028 " title="and good night" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2851-400x300.jpg" alt="and good night" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">&#39;twas fun!</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
<div id="attachment_1019" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 400px">
	<img class="size-large wp-image-1019 " title="you+me always" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2832-400x300.jpg" alt="you+me always" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">i like grafitti with cute words</p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: center;">
<div id="attachment_1027" class="wp-caption aligncenter" style="width: 400px">
	<img class="size-large wp-image-1027 " title="peace! fay and me" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/07/DSCN2850-400x533.jpg" alt="peace! fay and me" width="400" height="533" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">labbit survived the night of pokes! yay yay! </p>
</div>
<p style="text-align: left;">and so the night ended with our ice creams. mr labbit endured several sodomies but stayed nice and white. i was happy, and people liked <a href="http://www.patriciafield.com/gildaharempants.aspx" target="_blank" class="broken_link">my sparkly zebra sequined harem pants. (get your own! i will love you forever!) </a></p>
<p style="text-align: left;">note to self: the next time you wanna go out to a party with colourful people like at pat&#8217;s, wear more make up so you won&#8217;t look so washed out in comparison. AND, the next time you wanna go out with an ex-model/fabulous designer who you know is gonna wear platform wedges, put your heels on too!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">and then i want to point out to everyone, that <span style="color: #00ccff;">i was the first person i know in new york to start wearing sailor caps.</span> i started wearing it way long ago and <a href="http://queengilda.com/2008/07/16/sushis-birthday-party/">my sailor cap made it&#8217;s first pictorial debut at sushi&#8217;s birthday last year.</a> but it&#8217;s been worn to go to the supermarket, to go to school, everywhere. then all of a sudden, last night, we saw like 10 people all in american apparel but wearing sailor caps. wtf. dress up a little more if you wanna rock the captain&#8217;s hat will you!?!? and stop wearing generic sailor caps bought from your local costume shop! the only people fit for the captain now, are hugh hefner, and artie (who&#8217;s always a sailor).</p>
<p style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: #00ccff;">(and me). full stop.</span></p>
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<p style="text-align: left;"><strong>update!! update!!</strong><br />
i took a look at the smorkin&#8217; labbit&#8217;s tag, and hey! i wasn&#8217;t kidding that i thought he was a thug, gay rabbit! look at the user instructions! USER instructions! and, it&#8217;s only for ages 15 up! hahahha! repeat until relief is felt! that is sooooo hilarious!</p>
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		<title>christmas with the house of field</title>
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		<pubDate>Sun, 29 Mar 2009 21:28:29 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>gilda rêvasseur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[(tranny tits on the loose; don&#8217;t look further if you might get offended!) on december 21st, the house of field celebrated its annual christmas dinner and i was so delighted to be included. there were over 80 people on this incredible guest list, filled with the most beautiful trannies, drag queens, new york club kids, [...]]]></description>
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<p>on december 21st, the house of field celebrated its annual christmas dinner and i was so delighted to be included. there were over 80 people on this incredible guest list, filled with the most beautiful trannies, drag queens, <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Club_kid" target="_blank">new york club kids</a>, and really the nicest and funniest people ever. everyone was so shiny and sequined and eyelined, and i think the amount of fake eyelashes used that night could make a wig.</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-888 " title="masami+ingrid+me+lyndsay+julie" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn0996.jpg" alt="masami+ingrid+me+lyndsay+julie" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">the lovely women i worked with</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-890 " title="omar+dai+me+ian" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1003.jpg" alt="omar+dai+me+ian" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">omar, dai, myself and ian</p>
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<p>although i recognized many faces, i didn&#8217;t know many of them; after all i&#8217;d only been working at the patricia field boutique once or twice a week for about 7 months, so i only knew those who came to the store regularly. but it was great to see how everyone was so close to one another. it really felt like christmas, and it didn&#8217;t even matter what age, colour, or <em>sex</em> you were.</p>
<p>the party was held in a private room at the <a href="http://www.themaritimehotel.com/bottega.html" target="_blank">la bottega restaurant in the maritime hotel</a>, complete with a fireplace, christmas tree with presents, and of course, who else but trannyclaus! haha!</p>
<p>it was fantastic. everyone was so dressed up it was better than the oscars. i felt so pale in comparison and wished i had piled on the eyeshadow. there&#8217;s nothing like feeling less of a female when standing in between two drags. the dinner was so darn yummy, it was quite orgasmic. midway through the evening, the delightful and always smiling <a href="http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Andre_J." target="_blank">andre j</a> performed a little number for us that ended with her spinning in crazy, wild circles around the room, stripping down to little white boy shorts, grabbing a candle from the table and pouring the hot wax all over her body. ooh lala.</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-894 " title="andre j" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1020.jpg" alt="andre j" width="400" height="267" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">andre j working it!</p>
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<p>after andre j&#8217;s performance, out came tranny claus who had changed into a different little number. a very very tight one. and then in a split second, her boobs had popped out of her dress. which left me holding my stomach and laughing really hard.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-895 aligncenter" title="tranny claus" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1030.jpg" alt="tranny claus" width="400" height="267" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-896 aligncenter" title="suck it!" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1032.jpg" alt="suck it!" width="400" height="300" /></p>
<p>in the next moment, ian&#8217;s face was pressed into her cleavage and as you can see, even dai was laughing her face off.</p>
<p>then the best thing of all happened.</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><object classid="clsid:d27cdb6e-ae6d-11cf-96b8-444553540000" width="400" height="300" codebase="http://download.macromedia.com/pub/shockwave/cabs/flash/swflash.cab#version=6,0,40,0"><param name="flashvars" value="intl_lang=en-us&amp;photo_secret=21f878cd34&amp;photo_id=3146388741" /><param name="bgcolor" value="#000000" /><param name="allowFullScreen" value="true" /><param name="src" value="http://www.flickr.com/apps/video/stewart.swf?v=68975" /><param name="allowfullscreen" value="true" /><embed type="application/x-shockwave-flash" width="400" height="300" src="http://www.flickr.com/apps/video/stewart.swf?v=68975" allowfullscreen="true" bgcolor="#000000" flashvars="intl_lang=en-us&amp;photo_secret=21f878cd34&amp;photo_id=3146388741"></embed></object></p>
<p>i honestly thought i might die laughing. tom tom, the boy who had just made some lurve to trannyclaus&#8217;s boobies, is of course, gay himself. and i&#8217;m sure he isn&#8217;t at all particularly attracted to boobs. heh heh.
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<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-893 aligncenter" title="me+omar" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1015.jpg" alt="me+omar" width="400" height="300" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-892 aligncenter" title="me+tom tom " src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1012.jpg" alt="me+tom tom " width="400" height="533" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-891 aligncenter" title="me+moto" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1011.jpg" alt="me+moto" width="400" height="533" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-889 aligncenter" title="me+ian" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn0998.jpg" alt="me+ian" width="400" height="300" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-897 aligncenter" title="michael" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1043.jpg" alt="michael" width="400" height="533" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-898 aligncenter" title="michael+me" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1044.jpg" alt="michael+me" width="400" height="300" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-899 aligncenter" title="ayumi+moto" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1046.jpg" alt="ayumi+moto" width="400" height="533" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-900 aligncenter" title="me+verushka+ian" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1048.jpg" alt="me+verushka+ian" width="400" height="300" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-901 aligncenter" title="me+sushi+tom tom" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1051.jpg" alt="me+sushi+tom tom" width="400" height="300" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-902 aligncenter" title="sushi+pat field+ayumi+rob" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1058.jpg" alt="sushi+pat field+ayumi+rob" width="400" height="533" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-903 aligncenter" title="sushi+me" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1061.jpg" alt="sushi+me" width="400" height="300" /></p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-full wp-image-904 aligncenter" title="masami+moto+me" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/n1206207889_30355441_4762.jpg" alt="masami+moto+me" width="400" height="300" /></p>
<p>i felt very blessed to have had the opportunity to work with such amazing people. i miss them lots!! for more retarded photos, <a href="http://www.flickr.com/photos/kansha-shite/sets/72157611545275278/">check out my flickr account!</a></p>
 <div class=’series_toc’><p><h3>extra! extra! read all about it!<br>
 gilda day-dreamer and the prisoner of parsons</h3> <ol><li><a href='http://queengilda.com/2009/02/17/ive-died-and-gone-to-parsons-hell/' title='i&#8217;ve died and gone to parsons hell'>i&#8217;ve died and gone to parsons hell</a></li><li><a href='http://queengilda.com/2009/02/17/thanksgiving-with-my-pat-field-friends-27nov08/' title='thanksgiving &amp; black friday with my pat field friends 27nov08'>thanksgiving &#038; black friday with my pat field friends 27nov08</a></li><li><a href='http://queengilda.com/2009/02/20/fall-semester-of-junior-year/' title='fall semester of junior year'>fall semester of junior year</a></li><li>christmas with the house of field</li></div>]]></content:encoded>
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		<title>i&#8217;ve died and gone to parsons hell</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 17 Feb 2009 08:31:59 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>gilda rêvasseur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[and there&#8217;s no wifi down in this shithole so i haven&#8217;t been able to blog. well at least i&#8217;m trying to come up with an original (albeit lame) excuse! quite a number of you have emailed me and i&#8217;m so thankful that you still remember who i am in this whirlwind of 72937904 new fashion [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p><span style="color: #00ccff;">and there&#8217;s no wifi down in this shithole so i haven&#8217;t been able to blog.</span></p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-816" title="being retarded" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/1.jpg" alt="being retarded" width="500" height="682" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">being silly as usual</p>
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<p>well at least i&#8217;m trying to come up with an original (albeit lame) excuse! quite a number of you have emailed me and i&#8217;m so thankful that you still remember who i am in this whirlwind of 72937904 new fashion blogs that come up everyday. thank you so much. and i know, i know, i&#8217;m the snobby devil who didn&#8217;t reply and you all have the right to bitch-slap me. actually i have hundreds of emails in my inbox and i just don&#8217;t know where to start.</p>
<p>you know what i think? i think i&#8217;m letting school get to me. i really am. this stupid piece of $#!*@)#$&amp;! (grrrrr) school is just getting to me. new york is jading me and parsons is the jader.</p>
<p>or <span style="color: #00ccff;">maybe i&#8217;m having some sort of quarter-life crisis.</span> you know, from this year onwards i&#8217;m going to be in my late-twenties. last year, i could still say i&#8217;m in my early or mid-twenties&#8230; but at 26, i feel like i&#8217;m getting old and i&#8217;m really not ready for this. there&#8217;s so much i want to do and with school, i just don&#8217;t have time to do anything i want. so it makes me very frustrated and being frustrated makes me tired and hence i feel like i&#8217;m getting old. on the other hand i think i&#8217;m still a kid at heart. i&#8217;m still young like that. or ok, i just dress young. then again, i seem to &#8220;dress young&#8221; because i think people in america dress old.</p>
<p>sorry, didn&#8217;t mean to insult. but i like colour and i like to have fun and everyone here is just black and grey and <em>meh</em>.</p>
<p>erm, am i confusing you? it must be because i haven&#8217;t had proper sleep in a while so i&#8217;m gibberish.</p>
<p>so. what have you guys been up to? i&#8217;ve been trying to catch up with all my favourite blogs through my reader. everyone seems to be moving at some speed of light and i feel a little left behind with my boring old life.</p>
<p>the reason why i decided to drop all my work for a little while and blog tonight, (ps: it&#8217;s about 2am) is because i just attended the <a href="http://independentfashionbloggers.org/2009/01/28/ifb-nyfw-event/" target="_blank">independent fashion bloggers event</a> organised by the lovely jennine of <a href="http://thecoveted.net/" target="_blank">the coveted</a>, and talking to all these bloggers made me realise how much i actually miss blogging.</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-817" title="fashion un-police" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1843.jpg" alt="fashion un-police" width="300" height="538" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">i&#39;m da fashion un-police</p>
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<p>but the fact of the matter is, i&#8217;ve really been so busy with school that i just, simply don&#8217;t have anything to blog about unless you want to hear me bitch about school nonstop. (which by the way, for that, you can check out <a href="http://www.newschoolinexile.com" target="_blank">newschoolinexile.com</a> where we are trying to get rid of/impeach the university&#8217;s stupid president. yes, for real.) last year was awful and <a href="http://queengilda.com/2008/10/16/cant-wait-for-the-weekend/" target="_self">i fell sick so many times</a>. the moment school ended, i also finished my internship with <a href="http://queengilda.com/tag/patricia-field/" target="_self">patricia field</a> and left new york on christmas eve.</p>
<p>i flew to tokyo where i met up with my family. they had flewn up from singapore, and it was the first time in like, 7 or 8 years that all 5 of us had gone for a holiday together. we spent most of the 2 weeks in hokkaido (northern super-cold japan &#8211; think snow storms), and the remainder in tokyo.</p>
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	<a href="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/p1000626.jpg"><img class="size-full wp-image-818 " title="shikotsu-ko" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/p1000626.jpg" alt="at shikotsu lake in hokkaido" width="600" height="450" /></a>
	<p class="wp-caption-text">at shikotsu lake in hokkaido</p>
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<p>then we flew back home to singapore where i spent the remainder of my winter holidays, before coming back to new york and starting school immediately. and then you know, it all went downhill again from there. until valentine&#8217;s day when i went to the party at the patricia field boutique, i hadn&#8217;t gone out since returning to new york. i had only been going to school or to the supermarket. which is basically what my life is about, ever since i came to new york about a year and a half ago.</p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">pathetic, don&#8217;t you think? i really don&#8217;t have a life at all.</span> someone asked me yesterday if i went out on a date for valentine&#8217;s day.</p>
<p>oh wait, i think it was my dad when he called me. haha. yeah, he asked if i went on a date, and i said, &#8220;<span style="color: #00ccff;">date? what date. oh please. i&#8217;d rather date my bed.</span>&#8221;</p>
<p>school simply takes up every minute of my time, which means really little sleep, if any at all. every minute of free time i have, i&#8217;d rather be sleeping or lying horizontally on my couch. (i guess that&#8217;s the same thing in two different venues.)</p>
<p>so anyway, the patricia field boutique had a valentine&#8217;s day party where the turn-out was super crazy. i have never seen it so packed, there was a line outside!</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-819" title="valentine's at pat field" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/dscn1693.jpg" alt="claustrophobia at pat field's" width="400" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">claustrophobia at pat field&#39;s</p>
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<p>then on sunday the 15th, i went to amalia in midtown to celebrate pat&#8217;s birthday. it was so fun and my friend dai (who works at pat field too), performed her new single &#8220;i&#8217;m a killa&#8221;. she was so amazing!!! i thought it was such a waste that i was at such an amazing party like that because i didn&#8217;t know all the celebrities who were there. there were quite a bunch of photogs and every once in a while when certain somebodies walk in, the flashes go off and it&#8217;s crazy. i think the cast of ugly betty was there, some actresses and actors&#8230; the only one i really recognized was lucy liu. ohhh and fern mallis was there too! i wanted to ambush her but of course i didn&#8217;t.</p>
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	<img class="size-full wp-image-1057" title="patbday" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2009/02/patbday.jpg" alt="patbday" width="600" height="450" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">with pat and ayumi (why am i smiling weird??)</p>
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<p>and today, the 16th, i headed downtown, very downtown, to meet fashion bloggers where i was reminded again that my parents never taught me social skills and i blame them entirely for it. haha! i mean, i just don&#8217;t know how to go up to people and butt in and say hi! the best i did was to smile around and if anyone smiled back then i was like, &#8220;ooh make friends make friends!&#8221;</p>
<p>so that, ladies and genteelmen, is the story of my sad life.</p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">and i know you didn&#8217;t want to read all that. you just want pictures! right?? i&#8217;m gonna upload them, yes i am. cross my heart and hope to die. </span></p>
<p>so here&#8217;s a list of notable events that i&#8217;d been up to in the past few months (and the only reason why i remember them is because they were the only ones worth taking pictures of!):</p>
<p>20081127 thanksgiving &amp; black friday with my pat field family (sniff)<br />
20081208 last projects at school<br />
20081221 christmas party with trannyclaus and the house of field<br />
20081224-20090121 winter break to japan and singapore<br />
20090214 valentine&#8217;s day at patricia field<br />
20090215 pat field&#8217;s birthday<br />
20090216 ifb event</p>
<p>wow. as you can see, the only times i get to have fun is when i run away from new york or when i hang out at pat field (which was partly work-related too)!</p>
<p>i really really need to put work aside sometimes and go out and find myself a social life.</p>
<p>i&#8217;m not sure how to do this – what&#8217;s the best way for me to upload all these photos? do i start from the beginning? or do i go backwards!?</p>
<p>i guess i&#8217;ll do a &#8220;series&#8221; of photos and start from that thanksgiving date eh?</p>
<p>ps: i was just trying to think of a funny name for this series of photos, and all i could think of was &#8220;gilda day-dreamer and the prisoner of parsons&#8221;. you know, like harry potter and the prisoner of azkaban.</p>
<p><span style="color: #00ccff;">pps: i try to be funny sometimes but i really am not. <img src='http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_biggrin.gif' alt=':D' class='wp-smiley' /> </span></p>
 <div class=’series_toc’><p><h3>extra! extra! read all about it!<br>
 gilda day-dreamer and the prisoner of parsons</h3> <ol><li>i&#8217;ve died and gone to parsons hell</li><li><a href='http://queengilda.com/2009/02/17/thanksgiving-with-my-pat-field-friends-27nov08/' title='thanksgiving &amp; black friday with my pat field friends 27nov08'>thanksgiving &#038; black friday with my pat field friends 27nov08</a></li><li><a href='http://queengilda.com/2009/02/20/fall-semester-of-junior-year/' title='fall semester of junior year'>fall semester of junior year</a></li><li><a href='http://queengilda.com/2009/03/29/christmas-with-the-house-of-field/' title='christmas with the house of field'>christmas with the house of field</a></li></div>]]></content:encoded>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 17 Sep 2008 11:49:42 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>gilda rêvasseur</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[first of all, i wanna say thank you to all of you who took part in the hammer pants contest! i had a blast looking at everyone&#8217;s entries. have you guys checked them all out? they are pretty amazing! and kudos to those of you who made videos!!! i will be going through the entries [...]]]></description>
			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><p>first of all, <span style="font-size: 130%;">i wanna say <span style="color: #00ccff;">thank you</span> to all of you who took part in the <a href="http://queengilda.com/2008/08/24/cant-touch-this-hammer-pants-contest/">hammer pants contest</a>!</span> i had a blast looking at everyone&#8217;s entries. have you guys checked them all out? <span style="color: #00ccff;">they are pretty amazing!</span> and kudos to those of you who made videos!!! i will be going through the entries again and picking the winners pretty soon. stay tuned!</p>
<p>also, remember how i talked about meeting <a href="http://finalfashion.ca/" target="_blank">danielle from final fashion</a>, who sketched me while i stuffed my face with a burger? (ok i think i left out the burger part.) but yeah she drew a sketch of me, and it was crazy good! she also made me look a lot cute and skinnier. phew! haha! i just kept peeking over as her hands flew over her sketchbook. ok that woman is super fast. i can&#8217;t draw half as fast, plus, i need an eraser when i draw. that&#8217;s what separates me from the pros. haha! thanks danielle!</p>
<p style="text-align: center;"><img class="size-medium wp-image-652 aligncenter" title="danielle's sketch" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/2852189812_5648bd4279_o-208x300.jpg" alt="" width="208" height="300" /><br />
sketch by <a href="http://finalfashion.ca/?p=822" target="_blank">danielle meder</a></p>
<p>in other exciting news, <span style="font-size: 130%;"><span style="color: #00ccff;">it was <a href="http://galadarling.com" target="_blank">gala</a>&#8216;s birthday on saturday and <a href="http://nubbytwiglet.com" target="_blank">nubby</a>&#8216;s on sunday.</span></span> so the two of them held a joint birthday party at central park to celebrate. yahoo! i love birthday parties! i hadn&#8217;t slept that much in the 3 days before that because i had been so darn tired from school, and i had stayed up all night before the party, doing some work! i went to bed at 10 am (yes, you read that right, 10 am on saturday morning), and woke up at about 1:30pm just before the party. it was the best sleep i have had in a few days&#8230; and when i woke up i could hardly move. hahaha! really! i was like, &#8220;i don&#8217;t wanna get out of my beautiful beddddd!!!!&#8221; *whine whine whine*</p>
<p>but i did crawl out! i mean, i reached the party super late, at 3 pm-ish. i think because i had been feeling so sluggish, my body was just a piece of waste and i couldn&#8217;t move around as fast as i wanted to. but i&#8217;m glad i got there! it was colour haven. i didn&#8217;t really get dressed up much for it, unfortunately. in the end, i decided to wear the dress that i had sewn the night before! it was actually meant to be a design for one of my classes, and i didn&#8217;t intend to wear it, but i liked how it turned out (well i&#8217;d BETTER like it, i stayed up making it!) so i just threw it on and went to the party.</p>
<p>here are the photos! thank god for my nikon camera. it was a muddy and grey day but with some nice camera settings (good work, me!) my pictures turned out pretty bright!</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-636 " title="me + xenia" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/dscn0741-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">me + xenia, who&#39;s looking major colourful! love! she&#39;s starting her own make-up line. ain&#39;t she fab?</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-637 " title="me + xenia" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/dscn0742-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">this guy was so cute. he made the funniest faces while taking pictures! and i love it when people wear bowties. </p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-638  " title="purple + red" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/dscn0743-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">two tie-dyed heads. renee is quite the artist!</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-639 " title="me + star + gala" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/dscn0744-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">why am i so short? me + star + gala</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-650 " title="back" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/2858425512_bf3f5de49a_o-300x201.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="201" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">marie is so se-xay.</p>
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<p style="text-align: center;">i also realise that silly me forgot to take an outfit photo of the day! so this back view is the closest full-body shot i have of myself. that&#8217;s mister evil heart starin&#8217; at ya. yes, i wore my tshirt back to front! <span style="color: #00ccff;">aren&#8217;t i a genius? ha!</span></p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-641  " title="cynthia + me" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/dscn0748-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">a photo with another amazing artist, cynthia!</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-640 " title="me + nubby" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/dscn0746-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">nubby looking perfect as always!</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-642 " title="me + marie" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/dscn0747-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">how can anyone not love marie? she&#39;s so cheeky!</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-643 " title="marie" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/dscn0750-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">love. marie takes the most amazing photos. you have to check out her pictures!</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-644 " title="time + gala" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/dscn0751-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">we couldn&#39;t get a cab and took the fucking subway, yo!</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-645 " title="dscn0752" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/dscn0752-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">nubby is tired.</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-646 " title="marie's roids" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/dscn0766-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">marie&#39;s polaroids of the day!</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">we&#8217;d all seen marie&#8217;s crazy corn costume on her flickr page before, and that crazy woman had packed it into her suitcase and brought it across america to new york! hahahahaha! check out this video. the person you hear laughing like a hyena is me. hohohoho! she is so damn funny!!! you can&#8217;t get more fabulous than that!</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-649 " title="bed hoppin" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/untitled-2-300x266.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="266" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">the corn and nubby the rockstar, jumping on the bed</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-648 " title="corn nub" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/untitled-1-225x300.jpg" alt="" width="225" height="300" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">nubby decided to be corn. so cuuuute!</p>
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<p>gala and nubby were too tired to go out and party, so when star and marie decided they wanted to go out for some drinks, i thought i&#8217;d go along. we ended up in this little bar, and took some crazy photos! i&#8217;m glad i decided to go. star and marie are two pretty darn awesome ladies, with interesting stories and amazing jobs! i love listening and talking to people who have such passion for life.</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-647  " title="3 monkeys" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/dscn0768-300x225.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="225" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">3 monkeys. we really are.</p>
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<p>back at the hotel, nubby had fallen asleep. she must have been so tired, poor thing. xenia didn&#8217;t come at night, and we were stupid enough not to take photos at the park during the day when she was there and we were all fresh! so that night at 1:30-ish am, we took this photo in the hotel. <span style="font-size: 130%;">here are the <a href="http://queengilda.com/2008/08/23/raise-your-hand-if-youre-a-lady-blogger/">lady bloggers</a></span>, minus one! well, minus one and a half. because nubby is there in person and not there in spirit. hahahaha!!!!</p>
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	<img class="size-medium wp-image-651 " title="lady bloggers" src="http://queengilda.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2008/09/2857486863_c43cd8bc11_o-300x200.jpg" alt="" width="300" height="200" />
	<p class="wp-caption-text">lady bloggerzzzzz minus 1 &amp; 1/2!</p>
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<p style="text-align: left;">this was such an amazing day! i got to meet all these people whose blogs i have been reading for a while now. star, marie and <a href="http://shoedaydreams.blogspot.com/" target="_blank">poochie</a> had all flown into new york just for this day! (by the way if you&#8217;re a shoe maniac, you have to check out her blog. i am intending to rob her house and steal her shoe closet. or at least one louboutin.) in the short time that i was at the park, i also got to talk to some cute girls who go to school like me, one who teaches (gasp!) and one who works at in tv production and <a href="http://www.youtube.com/mimsiesky" target="_blank">has her own youtube show going on</a>! everyone was really so spread out and it was hard to talk to people and make friends. i half-wish we had a round table! hee hee!</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">but it was good, all good! plus, after wearing my dress all day, i really like how it turned out. so i&#8217;m glad i spent those 5 hours draping and sewing it! yayyy! hopefully it will score me some extra brownie points for my next project, which was what i actually made it for.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">ps: today (tuesday, sep 16th), nubby, gala and i took a trip to the <a href="http://www.colettexgap.com/" target="_blank">colette x gap</a> store hoping to be wowed and wanting to buy a ton of things. in 3 minutes, we left. disappointed and underwhelmed. boo, colette! i expected much more from you!</p>
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